This archive report was first published on 15 December 2019.
Wedding planning is often seen as a woman's domain, but grooms can play a vital role in making the experience more enjoyable and less stressful for their brides.
By taking charge of certain tasks, grooms can help their brides feel more supported and involved in the planning process.
Here are 10 ways grooms can contribute to wedding planning:
1. Selecting Groomsmen ¶
The groom is responsible for choosing his best man and groomsmen, deciding on their attire, and ensuring they are properly fitted and groomed for the big day.
2. Managing the Guest List ¶
Before creating a master guest list, the couple should each write down their intended guests, with the groom consulting his parents for any additional suggestions.
3. Sending Out Invitations ¶
The groom can take charge of sending out wedding invitations to his guests and following up on RSVPs to ensure a smooth and efficient process.
4. Coordinating Wedding Bands ¶
Once the couple has chosen their wedding bands, the groom can follow up with the jeweler to ensure the rings are well-made and delivered on time.
5. Mediating Family Disputes ¶
As a go-between, the groom should address any concerns or disputes from his side of the family, consulting his fiancée if necessary, to prevent tension from building up.
6. Preparing for the Big Day ¶
The groom should take charge of his own wedding preparations, ensuring he gets his suit and accessories well in advance of the big day.
7. Securing the Venue ¶
Once the venue is selected, the groom can follow up with the management to secure the booking and work on minor details such as payments and cleanliness.
8. Handling Sound and Music ¶
The groom should take the lead in finding sound providers and selecting music for the wedding, with input from his bride-to-be.
9. Arranging Transportation ¶
The groom can ensure there are enough cars for the bridal party and a means of transport for the immediate family.
10. Planning the Honeymoon ¶
After the wedding celebrations, a well-planned honeymoon can help the couple relax and enjoy their new life together. The groom can even plan a secret honeymoon to earn major points with his bride.
