This archive report was first published on 14 October 2019.
Published on October 14, 2019, socialite Vera Sidika took to Instagram to share her thoughts on why men may not change for women, even after years of relationships.
According to Vera, men should not be pushed to change because they will ultimately decide what they want to do. She believes that men only change when they like someone, and that's why women should stop pushing them.
She shared an example of a man leaving a 5-10 year relationship and getting married to someone he's known for just 6 months, highlighting that men are more likely to change for someone they desire.
'And does all the things his ex always begged him to do. Word of advice. Stop preaching to these men, they hear you,' Vera wrote on her InstaStory.
She also emphasized that people change for who they want, period, and that women should accept that men will not change for them unless they are the ones they desire.
