This archive report was first published on 24 May 2020.
Three Types of Men to Avoid in Relationships ¶
When it comes to dating, it's essential to be aware of the warning signs of a potentially bad relationship. Sydney sexologist Dr Nikki Goldstein has identified three types of men you'll likely encounter in your dating life: the charmer, the lost puppy, and the needy.
Published on May 24, 2020, Dr Goldstein's advice can help you navigate these obstacles and make informed decisions about your relationships.
The Charmer ¶
The charmer is often strong, assertive, and good-looking, but beneath this façade lies a sly side. Dr Goldstein warns that these men might tell you what you want to hear, promise a future, and show signs of commitment, but it's essential to keep your eyes open.
‘Actions speak louder than words. These guys might tell you what you want to hear, promise you a future, show you signs of commitment, but keep your eyes open,’ Dr Goldstein warned.
The Lost Puppy ¶
The lost puppy is a man who seems goofy and sweet but is unsure of what he's doing. He might sabotage his own chances at starting a relationship by falling in love with other women without knowing them, while ignoring someone who was really into him. When things fail, he comes crawling back, begging for forgiveness.
‘You can’t rescue the lost puppy dog. It might be tempting, but if the puppy is lost, there is nothing you can do,’ she said.
Dr Goldstein advises that you can make your intentions known and be honest with him, but if he can't do it in return, it's time to take your self-respect and move on.
The Needy ¶
The needy is a man who falls hard and fast and won't let you out of his sight. He can become overprotective, demanding, and possessive. Dr Goldstein warns that your love for this man might be overshadowed by how much he smother you.
‘The problem is he might not be able to do that. It could be an all or nothing type of deal as he might just have two modes,’ she said.
Dr Goldstein advises that if you're an independent woman, this man might not be the right person for you.
