This archive report was first published on 24 May 2020.
Kenyan men are in dire need of positive role models in the public eye, but unfortunately, they are often misled by celebrities who peddle unhealthy advice and promote a slave morality.
Willis Raburu, a Kenyan male celebrity, recently sparked controversy with his statement that a relationship is doomed if a woman is not arguing with her partner. This advice is not only misguided but also damaging, as it encourages young men to stay in unhealthy relationships where they are constantly fighting and arguing.
Another Kenyan male celebrity, Ted Josiah, has also been criticized for his hot take on the Jalang'o situation, which effectively blames Jalang'o and his friends for decisions made by consenting women. Josiah's explanation was met with ridicule, with many questioning the logic behind his thought process.
These celebrities, rather than preparing young men for the harsh realities of the world, would rather reiterate slave morality, especially when it comes to their dealings with Kenyan women. They promote a pedestalizing attitude towards their partners, where men are expected to be selfless and sacrifice their own needs and desires.
As a result, we have a generation of young men who are ill-equipped to handle relationships, thinking that emotional abuse and thinking women can do no wrong is a healthy model for all relationships. It's time for Kenyan men to look beyond these celebrities and seek out positive role models who can teach them how to build healthy relationships and navigate the complexities of the world.
Published on May 24, 2020
