This archive report was first published on 21 May 2020.
As we navigate the digital age, social media has become an integral part of our daily lives. However, a common phenomenon has sparked a heated debate among city dwellers: why do partners rarely or never post photos of their significant others on social media?
According to a closed Facebook group of city mums and dads, the reasons are varied and often humorous. Some believe that their partner is simply a private person, while others think it's a matter of lack of data bundles or fear of being stolen by friends.
One online user quipped, 'Ati hapendi Ufisi,' implying that their partner is not interested in social media. Another user stated, 'Ni wa wenyewe,' suggesting that their partner is independent and doesn't need validation from others.
Some users also pointed out that the best relationships are not posted all over social media, and that their partner's decision to keep them off social media is a sign of a healthy relationship. Another user humorously asked, 'Kwani ni nguo ya duka ati iwekwe display?' implying that their partner is not a commodity to be displayed.
As the debate continues, one thing is clear: social media has become a reflection of our personal lives, and the reasons behind our online presence are as varied as the people who use it.
