This archive report was first published on 18 May 2020.
May 18, 2020, marked a day when many women realized that their partners might be mama's boys. The term 'mama's boy' refers to someone who constantly seeks their mother's approval and acceptance, even when it's not needed.
For instance, Tanzanian musician Diamond Platnumz' love life has been under the control of his mother, Sandra Dangote. His relationships have been marred by his mother's interference, with his ex-partners, Zari and Tanasha Donna, speaking out about the challenges they faced.
So, how can you identify if you're dating a mama's boy? Here are some signs to look out for:
- They run to their mother first when there's a problem or exciting news to share.
- They live with their mother, even in their 40s, and rely on her for daily needs.
- They never criticize their mother, even when she's wronged them.
- They allow their mother to make personal decisions that affect their partner, such as where their children will go to school or what type of house they'll build.
Living with a mama's boy can be like being behind bars, with little to no freedom. Tanasha Donna, Diamond's ex-partner, has spoken out about the challenges she faced in their relationship, including Mama Dangote's controlling behavior.
