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Beware of Online Romance Scams During Lockdown

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Nyakundi Report

Newsroom 2 min read

This archive report was first published on 17 May 2020.

With the rise of online dating, many people are finding love in the digital age. However, as reported by Chris Hart on May 17, 2020, this new trend has also attracted scammers who are using fake profiles and convincing stories to swindle victims out of their money.

According to Hart, these scammers start by creating enticing profiles and photos on social networks, dating sites, and dating apps. They then use what amounts to 'call centres' to work on many victims at once, spending weeks gaining their trust before making their play.

Once the victim has been drawn in, the scammer will suggest a move to a more 'private' communication channel, such as an untraceable webmail or messaging account. It's then that the talk turns to money, with the scammer claiming they need urgent medical treatment, a passport or visa, or other forms of financial assistance.

However, as Hart warns, it's all a con, and it can get far worse. The scammer can use the victim's chats or selfies to start blackmailing them.

So, how can you spot these scammers? According to Hart, there are several giveaways, including a suggested move to messaging 'somewhere more private', avoiding live video or chat, and declaring their love far too early. They also tend to ask lots of questions, avoid answering yours, and soon turn the conversation towards money.

As a result, Hart advises being as alert as you would be on the streets when looking for love online. If the conversation turns financial, be instantly suspicious, and don't avoid the internet altogether – there's every sign that video dating is really catching on, and will only get better in future.

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