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First Date Faux Pas: Questions to Avoid

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Nyakundi Report

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This archive report was first published on 15 May 2020.

When it comes to dating, creating a good rapport with your partner is key. However, some questions can quickly turn a promising date into a disaster.

According to experts, asking the wrong questions on a first date can make the other person feel uncomfortable, judged, or even objectified.

Published on May 15, 2020, here are some questions to avoid on a first date:

  • How many people have you slept with?
  • Are you a virgin?
  • How much do you earn?
  • When was the last time you had sex?
  • How much did you pay for the bill?

These questions can make the other person feel like you're being intrusive or only interested in their physical or financial status.

Instead, focus on getting to know your date as a person, their interests, values, and goals. This will help you build a stronger connection and create a more positive and respectful atmosphere on your date.

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