This archive report was first published on 8 May 2020.
Published on May 8, 2020, a recent discussion with a friend, Eunice Akinyi, a first-born, revealed some interesting insights about last-borns in the dating scene.
According to Sigmund Freud's psychosexual stages of development, last-borns tend to score poorly in the dating game. This is attributed to several characteristics that make them challenging to date.
One of the primary challenges of dating a last-born is their attention-seeking behavior. They require constant reminders of their worth, which can be exhausting for their partners.
For instance, if a last-born says 'guess what!' while dating, it's often better not to guess at all, as a wrong guess can lead to days of sulking. This behavior can be overwhelming, making it difficult for their partners to keep up.
Another challenge is their oversensitivity. Last-borns can be easily offended, even by innocent comments or actions. A simple reminder that they are talking too much or a change in travel plans can lead to days of long faces and paragraphs of apologies.
Additionally, last-borns often have a self-righteous attitude that makes them resistant to correction. They may struggle to accept that they are wrong and may not apologize sincerely when they make mistakes.
Lastly, last-borns are often masters of misplaced sarcasm. They may say the opposite of what they mean, making it difficult for their partners to understand their intentions.
While these challenges can be daunting, it's essential to remember that every individual is unique, and not all last-borns exhibit these traits. However, being aware of these characteristics can help partners navigate the dating scene with more understanding and empathy.
