This archive report was first published on 14 January 2020.
As a new mother breastfeeds her child, it's essential for the father to be involved and supportive. This special time allows the mother and baby to bond, but often leaves the father feeling less than useful. However, with a little creativity and effort, dads can make a significant difference in their child's life.
According to Muhammed Nitoto, a father who has shared his experiences, there are several ways dads can help out during breastfeeding. Firstly, they should take paternity leave, which many employers now offer. As Nitoto puts it, 'You can always make money, but there are no instant replays in life.' This time allows the father to experience and enjoy the baby's first days, helping the child become more comfortable with them.
Another way dads can help is by getting up at night to support the mother. Night feedings can be challenging, and the mother may be sleep-deprived. Nitoto suggests that when the mother wakes up, the father should too, offering to get her a glass of water or helping with the baby. This can also be an opportunity for the father to bond with the baby, by burping and soothing them back to sleep.
Additionally, dads can offer to do one night feeding by giving the baby a bottle. This allows the mother to get some rest, and the father can take on this responsibility. It's essential to remember that breastfeeding is a process, and it's crucial to allow the baby to breastfeed to their satisfaction, without rushing them or the mother.
Lastly, patience is key. As Nitoto advises, 'Babies grow fast; the stronger and bigger they get, the more Daddy time will be coming your way.' By being patient and supportive, dads can play a vital role in their child's life, even during the early days of breastfeeding.
