This archive report was first published on 9 January 2020.
Published on January 9, 2020, a writer reflected on the 'I have a boyfriend' line, a phrase often used by women to deter unwanted male attention.
While the line may seem effective in the short term, the writer argues that it has a degrading effect on women, implying that their worth is tied to their relationship status.
The phrase also perpetuates male privilege, suggesting that men respect women more when they are 'owned' by another man.
Instead of relying on this line, the writer suggests finding alternative ways to say 'no' to unwanted advances, such as being direct and assertive.
By doing so, women can take back control and communicate their boundaries in a clear and respectful manner.
It's time to ditch the 'I have a boyfriend' line and find a new, trendy way to tell off the boys you don't want.