This archive report was first published on 6 January 2020.
Relationships can be a journey of self-discovery, but when one partner tries to change the other, it can be a recipe for disaster.
For one man, his six-month relationship was put to the test when his girlfriend expressed concerns about his drinking and smoking habits, which he had been doing since before they started dating.
She had known him for years, and yet, she was now trying to change him. But why?
Perhaps she thought she could 'fix' him, or maybe she had a different idea of who he should be. Whatever the reason, it's clear that she's not happy with the status quo.
So, is it a deal breaker? Only time will tell. But one thing is certain: relationships are about growth and change, but it's essential to remember that you can't change for someone else.
As the saying goes, 'you can't fix a broken person.' Instead, focus on being the best version of yourself, and let your partner appreciate you for who you are.
