This archive report was first published on 3 January 2020.
Published on January 3, 2020, a conversation about why women are drawn to 'bad boys' has been ongoing in Nairobi.
While there's no single answer, several factors contribute to this phenomenon. For instance, some women are hesitant to commit and prefer relationships that are unlikely to become serious, making 'bad boys' a suitable option.
Physical attraction also plays a role, as many women are drawn to men with a strong build, which is often associated with 'bad boys.'
Additionally, some women find 'nice guys' boring and prefer the thrill and excitement that comes with dating someone with a troubled past.
Another reason is that 'bad boys' tend to be more decisive and confident, which can be attractive to women. They also tend to speak with authority, even when they're wrong, which can be appealing to some.
However, this preference for 'bad boys' can be problematic, as women may find themselves repeatedly hurt by the same type of partner, often due to low self-esteem or a desire to 'fix' their partner.
Fortunately, the conversation is changing, and many women are learning to speak up for themselves and set boundaries in their relationships.
