This archive report was first published on 20 December 2019.
Kenya's elderly population is facing a crisis of neglect, with many sons abandoning their poor and sickly parents. According to Ayub Mungiiria, a Nchuri Ncheke elder and small-scale farmer, this is a widespread problem.
"Women have taken that responsibility and if you look keenly at many households, you will realise that daughters are the most blessed," Mungiiria says.
Published on December 20, 2019, Mungiiria's statement highlights the importance of family care for the elderly. However, many sons are failing to take on this responsibility, leaving their parents to suffer.
Wachira Kiago, a Kikuyu elder, believes that those who fail to care for their parents are cursed. In Kikuyu tradition, it is a law to love and care for one's parents, as they are the source of blessings.
"There are so many cases of aging parents who are dying of hunger whereas their sons spend their money in bars drinking alcohol with women," Kiago says. "As an elder, I would urge them to think twice because that is a way of digging your own grave," he adds.
Dr. Lenrod Otsyula of Defense Forces Memorial Hospital notes that elderly people are more prone to malnutrition and depression due to neglect from children. He emphasizes the importance of a good diet and regular visits from family members.
Susan Owour Njuguna, a social worker at Elroi Outreach Mission in Nairobi, highlights the challenges faced by neglected parents in the city. The high cost of living and safety concerns make it difficult for them to access care and support.
