This archive report was first published on 2 December 2019.
As a 22-year-old Christian woman, you've achieved great spiritual growth and career success. However, you're now facing a dilemma in your relationship with a fellow Christian who's interested in you but hasn't given your friendship a title.
Before considering a future together, it's essential to evaluate this man's values, beliefs, and circle of friends to understand who he is. Remember that when you marry someone, you also marry their background, associations, practices, beliefs, and values.
Don't rush into a relationship just because you feel in love. In marriage, you'll need more than just romantic feelings. Take time to discuss your future together, including your careers and spiritual goals, and seek prayer for God's guidance.
As you consider full-time ministry, ask yourself if you'd still pursue it if your partner decided you were no longer the right woman for him. Your decision should be based on God's call, not on your partner's support.
Before discussing submission, address the issues you've raised about your partner's maturity in decision-making, career, and financial matters. These are essential conversations to have, and being honest and open-minded will help you navigate these challenges together.
Ultimately, nurturing a healthy relationship requires effort, empathy, and a willingness to grow together. By focusing on being great friends and addressing the issues that matter, you can build a strong foundation for a fulfilling partnership.
