This archive report was first published on 28 November 2019.
Published on November 28, 2019, figuring out your true feelings for someone can be a daunting task.
Before you jump into a relationship, ask yourself these 5 questions to help you determine if you truly like someone.
1. What's behind your confusion? ¶
If you're questioning your feelings for someone, it's likely because you're unsure about your own emotions.
Take a step back and reflect on why you're feeling this way.
Are you just starting to develop feelings for this person, or are you unsure because you don't know them well enough?
Figuring out the truth behind your own questioning can help you determine if your feelings are real.
2. What do you like about this person? ¶
Make a list of all the things you like about this person.
By getting your likes on paper, you'll be able to pinpoint the qualities you like most about them.
If your list is dominated by physical attributes, it's possible that you're only attracted to them physically.
3. Do you really know this person? ¶
Have you taken the time to get to know this person beyond their surface-level qualities?
Do you know their likes, dislikes, morals, and goals?
If not, it's possible that you're not truly invested in this person.
4. How long have you been crushing on this person? ¶
There's a difference between a crush that's lasted a week and one that's lasted for months.
If you've been crushing on this person for a long time, it's likely that your feelings are real.
5. Does this person genuinely care about you? ¶
Pay attention to how this person treats you.
Do they compliment you, or are you just drawn to their attention?
If you're unsure about your feelings for this person, ask yourself these 5 questions to help you determine if you truly like them or not.
