This archive report was first published on 27 November 2019.
On a military wedding day, Angeline Yiamiton Siparo's dreams came true. But, as she reflects on her past, she realizes that the opulence and flamboyance of that day were just a facade. The real challenge lay in making her marriage work.
Published on November 27, 2019, Angeline's story serves as a poignant reminder that marriage is not just about the wedding, but about the journey that follows.
Angeline's divorce was amicable, but the process was emotionally draining. She has since become a sought-after advisor, with many seeking her opinion on their own marriages. Her response is always the same: 'Try to work it out.'
Angeline believes that marriages can be salvaged, but only if both partners are willing to put in the effort. 'It takes two people to make the marriage work,' she says.
Looking back, Angeline realizes that she and her ex-husband lacked the maturity to handle their differences. She advises young couples to seek guidance soon after marriage, rather than waiting for problems to arise.
Despite the challenges she faced, Angeline remains optimistic about the institution of marriage. 'Don't stay in an abusive marriage,' she warns. 'Learn your self-worth before marriage, and stay above the fray if divorce is the only solution.'
