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Navigating a Complicated Ex-Relationship

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Nyakundi Report

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This archive report was first published on 26 November 2019.

With the holiday season approaching, it's not uncommon for people to reconnect with old friends and acquaintances. However, when it comes to a married ex, things can get complicated.

According to a recent letter to advice columnist Just Brenda, a married ex has expressed interest in visiting, with the possibility of sex on the table. The question is, what should the person do?

Before making any decisions, it's essential to consider the potential consequences of getting involved with a married person. Are you ready to be a mistress, and are you okay with the implications that come with it?

It's also worth exploring whether there's something going on in the marriage that's driving your ex's behavior. Are they seeking an open relationship, or is this a sign of deeper issues?

Ultimately, the decision is yours, but it's crucial to prioritize your own well-being and consider what you believe in and want for your life at this stage.

As Just Brenda would say, 'You're not the one in a partnership, though, so the only answers you owe are to yourself. Just to be clear.'

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