This archive report was first published on 19 November 2019.
Heartbreak can be a debilitating experience, leaving one feeling broken and fearful of getting close to someone again. This was the case for a reader who recently reached out to us, sharing their story of heartbreak and the fear that has followed.
According to the reader, their last few relationships ended badly, leaving them with a constant fear of getting hurt again. They expressed their concern that their heart may not be able to take another heartbreak, and that they were hesitant to open themselves up to the possibility of love again.
However, as our relationship expert, Just Brenda, pointed out, life is pain, and anyone who tells you otherwise is selling something. She advised the reader to be cautious, but also to be aware of what they really want. At the end of the day, most people want a companion, and it's up to each individual to decide whether or not they're willing to take the risk of getting hurt again.
Just Brenda's words of wisdom were simple yet profound: 'Think about it in 10, 20 years, if you'll be okay with this decision to lock yourself away from the world – and be honest with yourself. Then act accordingly. Love is scary. Do it anyway.'
Published on November 19, 2019.
