This archive report was first published on 17 November 2019.
On November 17, 2019, a heart-wrenching incident shook the nation, as a mother and her two children lost their lives in a brutal murder over upkeep money.
As the country grappled with the devastating news, many began to question the dynamics of relationships and the role of women in demanding financial support from their partners.
While it is within the constitutional framework for men to take care of their children, it is essential to recognize that women do not have an absolute right to demand and insist on such support.
When a man walks out on his family, it is crucial to approach the situation with caution and explore peaceful avenues of restoring understanding and cooperation.
Unfortunately, the pursuit of upkeep money has led to tragic consequences, including the loss of three lives that can never be regained.
It is imperative for women to be aware of the type of men they engage with and to understand their limits and boundaries.
By doing so, they can develop a more informed approach to relationships and avoid situations that may lead to trauma and heartache.
As a cautionary tale, it is essential for women to recognize that they do not have the right to demand upkeep money from men who have chosen to leave their families.
Instead, women should focus on becoming self-sufficient and developing their own skills and business ideas to improve their lives and the lives of their children.
By taking control of their own destinies, women can break free from the cycle of dependence and create a brighter future for themselves and their families.
