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Red Flags of a Dead Beat Dad: 6 Signs to Watch Out For

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Nyakundi Report

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This archive report was first published on 15 November 2019.

As the number of dead beat dads continues to rise, many women find themselves struggling to raise their children alone, while their partners move on with their lives.

According to experts, the signs of a dead beat dad are often evident from the start, but women often choose to ignore them.

Published on November 15, 2019, a recent article highlighted six common signs that may indicate a man is a dead beat dad.

1. Vanishing Act

When a woman discovers she is pregnant, it's only natural to expect her partner to be supportive and excited. However, some men take the news as an opportunity to disappear.

While it's not always a guarantee that a man who goes mute after learning of a pregnancy is a dead beat, it's often a sign of things to come.

2. No Time for You or the Baby

Parenting is a full-time job that requires dedication and commitment. Dead beat dads, however, often claim to be too busy with 'urgent matters' to spend time with their children.

They may promise to make it up to you and the baby, but their actions speak louder than words.

3. Always Broke

Despite working, many dead beat dads claim to be financially struggling. However, they often find the means to spend money on luxuries and entertainment.

It's essential to be aware of the red flags and not fall for their excuses.

4. Social Media Show-Off

Some dead beat dads love to flaunt their children on social media, but when it comes to providing for them, they're nowhere to be found.

They may even take screenshots of their baby mama's posts, pretending to be interested in their child's life.

5. Blocking and Stalking

Dead beat dads often block their partners from their social media accounts and contacts, making it difficult for them to stay in touch.

However, they may still be stalking their partners, keeping tabs on their lives without their knowledge or consent.

6. Partying Hard

Men who prioritize partying and socializing over their responsibilities as a father are often dead beats.

They may claim to be on business trips or attending to 'urgent matters,' but the truth is, they're more interested in their social life than in being a good parent.

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