This archive report was first published on 15 November 2019.
Marriage has become increasingly fragile in recent years, with a surprising number of millennials already divorced, separated, or in advanced stages of divorce and separation.
According to friends' accounts, the common threats to marriages nowadays include a lack of intimacy, peer pressure, dishonesty, and a failure to transition into roles as wives and husbands.
One of the primary reasons for the decline of marriages is the lack of intimacy. With too much work, infection, disaffection, and an erosion of interest over time, individuals may lose their sex drive, leaving one spouse more starved than the other.
Instead of addressing the problem proactively, many couples hide their pain and displeasure, hoping for a better time that never arrives. This can lead to accusations of infidelity and a breakdown in communication.
Another factor contributing to the decline of marriages is peer pressure. Couples often compare their lives to others, leading to feelings of inadequacy and competition. This can result in a destructive cycle of comparison and one-upmanship.
Additionally, dishonesty has become a significant issue in modern marriages. With both partners chasing individual dreams and making big moves in an unhealthy competition, the quality of life is compromised. It is essential for couples to be honest with each other and communicate effectively to avoid the consequences of dishonesty.
Furthermore, the lack of transition and growing up is a significant threat to marriages. Many college-educated women take too much time to fully transition into their roles as wives, while men rarely want to live up to their titles as husbands. This can result in highly toxic marriages.
Lastly, tough economic times can also take a toll on marriages. When the breadwinner loses his job or source of income, the wife may become unreasonable, leading to a breakdown in the relationship.
It is essential for couples to be aware of these threats and take proactive steps to address them. By being honest, communicating effectively, and transitioning into their roles as wives and husbands, couples can build stronger, more resilient marriages.
