This archive report was first published on 13 November 2019.
On a recent episode of Kamene and Kibe's show, the duo referenced Steve Harvey's book, Think Like A Man Act Like A Woman, and the 90-day rule for women. The idea is that by waiting 90 days before engaging in intimacy, a woman can increase her chances of securing a man's commitment.
However, Andrew Kibe took a different stance, suggesting that there may be underlying issues that contribute to a man's decision to leave. He cited an example of a friend who had been in short-term relationships and was struggling to find a long-term partner.
According to Kibe, the problem lies not with the woman's willingness to wait, but with the man's inability to commit. He argued that if a man calls a woman for a date, it's likely because he's interested in her, not just because he wants to 'get his cookie.'
One caller disagreed with Kibe, suggesting that it's better for a woman to wait and give herself time. Another caller echoed this sentiment, stating that there's no hurry when it comes to sex and that a woman can wait.
However, not all callers supported Kibe's views. One man suggested that the 'hit and run' approach is often the most effective way to satisfy one's needs, leaving the woman with some 'thirst' but not necessarily securing her commitment.
Despite the debate, Kibe remains convinced that the 90-day rule is not a foolproof solution. He shared a personal anecdote about a woman who was advised to wait 90 days before engaging in intimacy with her husband, but ended up seeking comfort elsewhere.
As the debate continues, it's clear that the 90-day rule is not a one-size-fits-all solution. While some women may find it helpful, others may need to consider other factors when evaluating a potential partner.
