This archive report was first published on 12 November 2019.
Published on November 12, 2019, a common phenomenon has been observed where men dump women who do all the household chores only to marry a 'slay queen'.
Experts warn that living with a man who hasn't married you can have severe consequences, including heartbreak, unwanted pregnancy, and a miserable stay-at-home life.
Here are five reasons why you should reconsider living with a man who hasn't married you:
- He may not marry you at all. In fact, he may only be using you for free milk, and once he's satisfied, he'll move on to someone he sees as 'wife material.'
- Chances of getting pregnant are high, and once you're pregnant, it can be challenging to leave the relationship.
- You may end up being wife number two. Many women have found themselves in this situation, where they're replaced by another woman after they've done all the household chores.
- Living with a man who hasn't married you can lead to constant fighting with his side chicks. Men often say that a man should have two or three women before settling down, but this can lead to a lot of drama and heartbreak.
- Lastly, you may end up becoming a miserable stay-at-home mum. While being a stay-at-home mum can be a personal choice, it's not ideal when it's used as a tool to control and manipulate you.
