This archive report was first published on 10 November 2019.
The Siren: A Cautionary Tale of New Converts ¶
As I reflect on my encounters with new converts, I am reminded of the complexities of faith and the challenges that come with it. A few months ago, I met friends who were mourning the loss of their wives, but their conversation took an unexpected turn when they complained about losing their women to God.
At first, I dismissed their views as dramatic, but a recent family gathering left me feeling vexed by two female relatives who had recently found God and were not letting us forget it. Their behavior was a stark reminder of the challenges that come with new converts.
It's not uncommon for new converts to adopt a self-righteous attitude, lecturing others about their personal lives and choices. They often see themselves as saints, operating under the assumption that their faith makes them superior to others. This attitude can be alienating and annoying, especially when they impose their faith on others.
One of the most galling things about new converts is their tendency to interrupt conversations with 'Pastor says.' They often use this phrase to justify their actions and opinions, as if the pastor's words are the ultimate authority. This behavior can be frustrating, especially when it's used to silence others or to impose one's own views.
Modern churches have also contributed to this problem by giving pastors fancy titles like Lord, Daddy, and Apostle. This has created a culture where new converts look up to their pastors as authority figures, often to the point of obsession. They may seek the pastor's advice on everything from personal relationships to financial decisions, without considering the potential consequences.
It's essential to remember that faith is a personal choice, and it's not something that should be imposed on others. New converts should be encouraged to explore their faith in a way that respects the boundaries of others. By doing so, we can create a more inclusive and compassionate community that values diversity and promotes understanding.
As I reflect on my experiences with new converts, I am reminded of the importance of living and letting live. Faith is a personal choice, and it's not something that should be used to judge or condemn others. By embracing this principle, we can create a more harmonious and respectful community that values the dignity of all individuals.
