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Girl Code: Marriage is a Personal Decision

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Nyakundi Report

Newsroom 2 min read

This archive report was first published on 4 November 2019.

As the year draws to a close, many women are being ridiculed for listing 'marriage' as one of their resolutions. However, it's essential to remember that marriage is a personal decision that should be made with careful consideration, not driven by societal pressure or deadlines.

Marriage is a full-time commitment that requires dedication, love, and respect. It's not something to be rushed into, and it's crucial to prioritize one's own happiness and well-being over the expectations of others.

Rather than putting a deadline on marriage, it's essential to focus on personal growth, self-love, and self-acceptance. This allows individuals to develop a deeper understanding of themselves and what they truly want in life.

It's also essential to recognize that marriage is not a one-size-fits-all solution. What works for one person may not work for another, and it's crucial to respect individual choices and decisions.

As someone who is in their mid-thirties and still single, it's essential to remember that time is not a factor in finding love or getting married. What's essential is finding a partner who loves and respects you for who you are, and who shares your values and goals.

Ultimately, marriage is a personal decision that should be made with careful consideration and respect for oneself and others. It's essential to prioritize one's own happiness and well-being over societal expectations and to focus on personal growth, self-love, and self-acceptance.

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