This archive report was first published on 2 November 2019.
November 2, 2019, was a day that left a lasting impression on me. I came across a heart-wrenching story of a 14-year-old boy from Nyando who was brutally attacked by his stepmother and father, allegedly for stealing a phone.
Stories like these send shivers down my spine, and I often wonder how such atrocities occur. It's a stark reminder of the importance of being aware of one's limitations, especially in love and relationships.
When a woman enters a relationship with a man who already has children, she must be honest with herself about her capacity to raise another woman's child. Ignoring these limitations can lead to devastating consequences, as seen in the case of the young boy from Nyando.
It's essential to be clear about what you want from the start. If you want to have children, don't date men who don't and hope that something will change. If you want a sober man, marry a teetotaller, not someone who has a history of excessive drinking. And if the finer things in life are a priority, marry a man who can provide them.
Most of the time, what you see is what you get. Be aware of your limitations, and don't ignore them. It's better to be single and content than to be in a relationship that's doomed to fail.
