This archive report was first published on 19 October 2019.
The Rise of Male Prostitution in Nairobi ¶
Published on October 19, 2019
Prostitution has long been a taboo topic in Kenya, but a growing trend in Nairobi suggests that women are increasingly willing to pay for sex with young men.
According to a recent investigation, many of these men are not sex workers by choice, but rather by necessity. They are often young, unemployed, and struggling to make ends meet.
One such individual is Nelly, a 27-year-old beauty technician who has been working as a sex worker for three years. He earns a modest income, but it's enough to help him support his family and pay for his education.
Nelly's story is not unique. Many young men in Nairobi are turning to sex work as a means of survival. They are often lured by the promise of easy money and a chance to improve their lifestyle.
But what drives women to pay for sex? According to Maurice Matheka, a relationship and sexual psychology expert, many women are looking for a way to spice up their sex lives. They may be bored with their partners or seeking a more exciting experience.
Matheka explains that there are two types of sex: recreational and procreation. Most sex happening in homes is for procreation purposes, which can be boring and obligatory. Women who pay for sex are not trying to leave their husbands, but rather seeking stimulus that they are not getting at home.
James, a 29-year-old dancer and stripper, offers a different perspective. He believes that men and women are not as different as we think. He has seen women behave in ways that are similar to men in private settings, and he believes that this is a sign of a deeper issue.
As the trend of women paying for sex continues to grow in Nairobi, it raises important questions about the nature of intimacy and relationships. Is it possible for men and women to have both recreational and procreative sex in their relationships? Or is it a sign of a deeper issue in our society?
