This archive report was first published on 19 October 2019.
On October 19, 2019, Eliud Kipchoge made history by breaking the world marathon record with a time of 1:59:40.2. The achievement was a testament to his dedication and perseverance.
As I watched the event unfold from Kigali, Rwanda, I couldn't help but feel a sense of excitement and pride. However, I was also struck by the contrast between my own emotional response and that of those around me.
While I was jumping for joy and screaming with excitement, many people seemed oblivious to the significance of the moment. It was as if they were going about their daily lives, unaware of the historic achievement that was unfolding before their eyes.
As I reflected on this experience, I began to wonder why men often shy away from public displays of affection. Why do they struggle to express their emotions in a way that is visible to others?
One possible answer is that men are simply wired differently than women. They may be more inclined to keep their emotions to themselves, and may not feel the need to express them publicly.
Another possibility is that men have been socialized to suppress their emotions, and may feel ashamed or embarrassed to express them in a way that is visible to others.
Finally, it's possible that men simply don't see the value in expressing their emotions publicly. They may view it as unnecessary or even counterproductive, and may prefer to keep their feelings to themselves.
So, what can women do to encourage their partners to be more open and expressive? One approach is to have honest conversations with your partner about your feelings and needs. This can help to create a safe and supportive environment in which your partner feels comfortable expressing themselves.
Another approach is to create a space in which your partner feels safe and supported. This may involve being patient and understanding, and avoiding judgment or criticism when your partner does express themselves.
Ultimately, the decision to be open and expressive is a personal one, and may depend on a variety of factors. However, by creating a supportive and non-judgmental environment, women can help to encourage their partners to be more open and expressive, and can build stronger, more meaningful relationships as a result.
