This archive report was first published on 14 October 2019.
Kim Kardashian's daring look at the Met Gala earlier this year has been making headlines, but it's not just her fashion choice that's been under scrutiny. Her husband, Kanye West, has been accused of having a controlling attitude in their relationship, and a recent episode of Keeping Up With The Kardashians has shed light on this issue.
According to the episode, Kanye expressed his disapproval of Kim's appearance, claiming that she looked 'too sexy' and that it affected him mentally. He even went so far as to say that he felt like he was 'possessed' by her sexiness.
But what's really concerning is Kanye's behavior. By implying that Kim's appearance reflects on him, he's showing a lack of respect for her autonomy and individuality. This kind of thinking can be a sign of a controlling relationship, where one partner tries to dictate the other's behavior and appearance.
Dr. Lisa A. Fontes, author of Invisible Chains: Overcoming Coercive Control in Your Intimate Relationship, agrees that this kind of behavior is a red flag. 'We have these cultural myths that jealousy is a sign of love, that spending all of one's time is required in a loving relationship, that romance is giving up everything for love, and these ideas are kind of traps.'
So, what can you do if you're in a relationship where your partner is exhibiting controlling behavior? Here are six common signs to look out for and what to do about it.
