This archive report was first published on 14 October 2019.
Published on October 14, 2019, Vera Sidika, a Kenyan socialite, has been sharing her thoughts on relationships, offering advice to women on how to navigate their relationships.
According to Vera, women often try to change men, but this approach rarely works. Instead, she suggests that women should accept that people change for who they want, and not try to force someone to be someone they're not.
She shared a story on her Instagram account, where she wrote, 'I've seen men leave 5-10 year relationships, turn around and get married to a woman he's known for 6 months. And does all the things his ex always begged him to do. Word of advice, stop preaching to these men, they hear you. He's not going to ever be the man you want him to be because you're not the woman he wants to be with. People change for who they want. Period.'