This archive report was first published on 9 October 2019.
Getting your child to talk about their school day can be a daunting task, especially when they're not in the mood. But what if there was a simple trick to get them to open up and share their experiences with you?
According to Dr. Wendy Mogel, a clinical psychologist, the key to unlocking your child's secrets lies in showing them that you care about what they care about. In a recent episode of the How To! podcast with Charles Duhigg, Mogel shared her advice on how to get your child talking.
As you pick up your child from school, put away your device and say something like, 'I thought about you today when I saw [something they like that they've told you about].' This simple gesture can go a long way in making your child feel seen and heard.
By showing your child that you've been thinking of them during the day, you're essentially saying, 'I care about what you care about.' This can be a powerful way to build a stronger connection with your child and get them to open up about their experiences.
So, the next time you pick up your child from school, try this simple trick and see the difference it can make.
