This archive report was first published on 8 October 2019.
October 8, 2019, was a day that changed the life of a young woman forever. She had been in a four-year relationship with a man who promised her the world, but little did she know that he was hiding a dark secret - he was married with two children.
After discovering the truth, she found herself in a difficult and stressful situation, with a child of her own to care for. Despite her partner's promises to buy land and build her a house, she felt lost and helpless.
Just Brenda, a renowned relationship expert, offers words of wisdom to the heartbroken woman. 'When you get tired, you will leave. If you are still there, it means something inside you is still hanging on, still hoping, still wishing that he will somehow change.'
However, four years had passed, and the woman was still stuck in the relationship. Brenda's advice was clear: 'If you really can't stand him, leave the relationship. Say no to the house. Accept the alimony for your child but do not take more from him than you need to. Start your life without him.'
It's time for the woman to take control of her life and move on from the heartbreak and betrayal. As Brenda so aptly puts it, 'If you don't do what you say you're going to do, then you'll still be here writing to me next year. If you want to go...go!'
