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Signs You're in True Love

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Nyakundi Report

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This archive report was first published on 8 October 2019.

Published on October 8, 2019, love is a complex and intense emotion that can be both exhilarating and terrifying. As we navigate the ups and downs of relationships, it's essential to understand the signs that indicate we're in true love.

One of the most significant signs of true love is feeling mature in the relationship. As we grow older, we begin to realize that our past experiences, particularly those in our teenage years, were often childish and infatuated. We may have mistaken infatuation for love, but as we mature, we develop a new perspective on what love truly means.

Another sign of true love is the inability to stop thinking about the other person. This phenomenon is backed by science, as our brains release hormones like serotonin and dopamine when we're in love, causing us to become preoccupied with the person. This sign is a clear indication that we're in love.

True love also causes a rush of excitement, often accompanied by feelings of euphoria. This is due to the release of chemicals in our body that give us a 'high' feeling. While the intensity of this feeling may vary from person to person, it's a common sign of being in love.

Planning a future with the other person is another significant sign of true love. When we're in love, we begin to think about our lives together, picturing a future filled with shared experiences and memories. This shift from 'I' to 'we' is a clear indication that we're committed to the relationship.

Support and happiness are also essential signs of true love. When we're in love, we become more compassionate, kind, and empathetic towards the other person. We start to take their happiness as our own, without demanding anything in return. This selfless love is a hallmark of true love.

Finally, feeling safe and accepted in a relationship is a significant sign of true love. When we feel comfortable enough to be ourselves around the other person, without fear of judgment or criticism, it's a clear indication that we're in love. Accepting the other person's flaws and imperfections is also a sign of true love, as it shows that we value and appreciate them for who they are.

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