This archive report was first published on 7 October 2019.
Published on October 7, 2019, a time when societal expectations of masculinity were still prevalent.
Men were often raised to suppress their emotions, drink heavily, and conform to traditional gender roles. However, these expectations can lead to high depression rates and toxic relationships.
One of the most damaging expectations is that men must drink to be considered 'real men.' However, this is not true. People are raised differently, and some may come from backgrounds where alcohol consumption is not encouraged.
It's okay not to drink, and it shouldn't quantify manhood. In fact, it's essential to recognize that men can be men without consuming alcohol.
Another expectation is that men should not hold women's handbags in public. However, this is a personal choice and should not be dictated by societal norms.
Men have been taught to suppress their feelings, but this can lead to mental breakdowns. It's okay to cry and express emotions, as men are humans too.
Real men do not sleep around, and body count should never be a way of quantifying men. Society should allow men to live the best way they know how.
Men should also be free to express themselves through fashion, without being limited by traditional gender roles. Shouting colors like pink, green, and light blue are not exclusive to women, and men should feel comfortable wearing them.
Lastly, being religious is a personal decision that should not be influenced by anyone. Men should be free to believe in whatever they choose, without fear of judgment.