This archive report was first published on 1 October 2019.
As we enter a new decade, the dating scene has become increasingly complex. With the rise of social media, it's easier than ever to connect with potential partners, but it's also easier to get lost in the noise. In this article, we'll explore 9 key terms that can help you navigate the modern dating world.
Published on October 1, 2019, this article aims to provide insight into the latest dating trends and terminology. Whether you're a seasoned dater or just starting out, understanding these terms can help you avoid common pitfalls and build healthier relationships.
1. Benching ¶
Benching refers to the practice of stringing potential partners along, often by paying more attention to one person over another. This can be a confusing and frustrating experience, especially if you're not sure where you stand with your partner.
2. Orbiting ¶
Orbiting occurs when someone you've broken up with or stopped dating tries to get your attention on social media. This can be a subtle but effective way to keep you hooked, often without any intention of rekindling the relationship.
3. Peacocking ¶
Peacocking is the practice of showing off to get a woman's attention. This can involve flaunting wealth, looks, or other desirable qualities in an attempt to impress a potential partner.
4. Roaching ¶
Roaching describes the practice of seeing someone romantically while hiding the fact that you're also seeing other people. This can be a difficult situation to navigate, especially if you're not sure where you stand with your partner.
5. Thorning ¶
Thorning refers to dating someone with a higher social status in order to boost your own reputation or finances. This can be a superficial approach to dating, often prioritizing external validation over genuine connection.
6. Zombieing ¶
Zombieing occurs when someone you've broken up with or stopped dating tries to reappear in your life, often with a 'hey stranger' text or other attempt to rekindle the relationship. This can be a confusing and frustrating experience, especially if you're not sure where you stand with your partner.
7. Stashing ¶
Stashing refers to keeping a relationship on the down-low, often by avoiding introduction to friends and family or keeping the relationship private on social media.
8. Vulturing ¶
Vulturing describes the practice of waiting for a dying relationship to end before swooping in to start dating the other person. This can be a shallow approach to dating, often prioritizing convenience over genuine connection.
9. Love Bombing ¶
Love bombing refers to the practice of showing excessive affection or romantic interest in order to manipulate or control a partner. This can be a red flag for an abusive relationship, often prioritizing the abuser's needs over the partner's well-being.
