This archive report was first published on 30 September 2019.
Published on September 30, 2019, a debate has been ongoing about the ideal time to engage in sexual activity. While opinions vary, some argue that having sex before marriage has no impact, while others claim it does.
Those who advocate for waiting until marriage cite several reasons for their stance. Here are five key points to consider:
Reasons to Wait Until Marriage ¶
- Marriage provides more relationship security, especially in the event of unforeseen circumstances like pregnancy. When couples are married, they have committed to supporting each other through life's ups and downs.
- Waiting until marriage is a sign of respect and honour for one's future partner. By preserving oneself, individuals demonstrate self-respect and a commitment to their future spouse.
- Sex before marriage can cloud judgment, making it challenging to navigate relationship issues. Waiting until marriage allows couples to appreciate each other without distractions.
- Having sex before marriage can lead to regret, especially when it involves the wrong person. It also increases the risk of contracting STDs and other diseases.
- Sex before marriage can have physical and mental effects, including reduced ability to connect with future partners. Oxytocin, responsible for natural bonding, can decrease with an increase in partners.
