This archive report was first published on 27 September 2019.
The disappearance of Tob Cohen, a Dutch billionaire, has captivated Kenyans for over a week. His body was discovered in a sealed drum inside an underground septic tank at a Sh400 million mansion in Kitisuru, which he shared with his wife, Sarah Wairimu Cohen (née Kamotho). The couple was in the midst of a bitter divorce, with Wairimu Kamotho emerging as a suspect in the murder.
As the investigation unfolds, social media has been abuzz with speculation about the alleged dangers of Central women, particularly those from Kiambu. However, a closer examination of the facts reveals a more nuanced picture.
It's essential to separate fact from fiction and tackle tribal stereotypes head-on. The notion that all women from Central are 'rich hubby killers' is a gross oversimplification. In reality, the stereotype targets women from a specific part of Kiambu, known as 'Kabete.'
According to urban myth, women from Kabete, particularly those from the King'eero area, are said to be well-off and comfortable, with many widows in their 30s, 40s, and 50s raising their offspring. However, this stereotype is not only inaccurate but also perpetuates harmful generalizations.
Meanwhile, Nyeri has its own set of stereotypes, with men being portrayed as drunks who need 'Dutch courage' to face their 'lioness' type wives. In contrast, Murang'a women are seen as loyal and hardworking, which is supposed to explain their men's happiness. However, these stereotypes are equally flawed and contribute to a distorted view of women from different regions.
It's time to move beyond these stereotypes and focus on the facts. By doing so, we can work towards a more inclusive and respectful society that values diversity and promotes understanding.
