This archive report was first published on 26 September 2019.
Friendships are a vital part of our lives, but some relationships can be toxic and detrimental to our mental health. Published on September 26, 2019, a Reddit thread shed light on the signs that indicate a friendship has turned unhealthy.
Here are the top 10 signs to watch out for:
- Feeling drained or anxious after spending time with someone, or constantly worrying about their reactions.
- Being the only one initiating plans and conversations, with the other person rarely reciprocating or showing interest.
- One-sided friendships where you're always the one sharing your problems and struggles, but the other person doesn't reciprocate or show genuine concern.
- Feeling like you're walking on eggshells around someone, always trying to avoid conflict or criticism.
- Being guilt-tripped or manipulated into doing things you don't want to do.
- Feeling uncomfortable confiding in someone or being yourself around them.
- Dealing with an 'askhole' who constantly seeks advice but never takes it seriously.
- Having someone disrespect your boundaries or make you feel insecure.
- Wondering if a friendship is toxic or abusive, which is a clear sign that it is.
- Dealing with someone who is inconsiderate of your time and consistently flakes out on plans.
By recognizing these signs, you can take steps to protect your mental health and surround yourself with positive, supportive relationships.
