This archive report was first published on 23 September 2019.
Relationships thrive on trust and open communication. However, many men seem to take this for granted, leaving their partners feeling anxious and uncertain about their whereabouts.
As a woman, it's not about being controlling or needy; it's about feeling secure and loved. When men fail to keep their partners updated, it can lead to unnecessary stress and worry.
Take, for instance, a simple trip to work. A woman will often call her partner to let them know she's arrived safely, even if it's just a minor update. But men often seem to think that their whereabouts are none of their partner's business.
Imagine waking up one morning to find that your partner has left for a meeting in Nakuru without telling you. You might wonder if they're safe, if they've encountered any issues, or if they're even still alive. It's a feeling that's hard to shake off, especially when you're left in the dark.
It's not just about the distance; it's about the lack of communication. If your partner is going to be away for an extended period, it's only fair to let you know in advance. That way, you can prepare yourself and make necessary arrangements.
Some men might think that they're being considerate by not updating their partners, but in reality, they're causing more harm than good. A simple phone call or text message can go a long way in alleviating anxiety and building trust in a relationship.
As the author of this piece so aptly puts it, 'You men just have no idea how much being just a kilometre from you makes our hearts skip a beat.' It's a sentiment that many women can relate to, and it's a reminder that communication is key in any successful relationship.
So, men, take heed: a little communication can go a long way in keeping your partner happy and secure. It's not about being controlling; it's about being considerate and loving.
