This archive report was first published on 20 September 2019.
Published on September 20, 2019, a concerned sibling reached out to Just Brenda for advice on how to handle her sister's choice of partner.
The sister in question has a steady job and has moved away from her rough neighborhood, but still finds herself drawn to men who spend their days chewing miraa and hanging out at shopping centers.
These men, according to the concerned sibling, have no ambition and are only looking for their next catch. They often rely on their partner for financial support and use their partner's resources without contributing anything in return.
Just Brenda advises the concerned sibling to focus on supporting her sister, rather than trying to change her partner choices. She notes that ultimately, it's the sister's decision who she chooses to date and that the concerned sibling can only offer her opinion.
Just Brenda's advice is to love and support her sister through her decisions, whether they turn out right or wrong. This is what family is for, after all.
Do you have a problem to share with Just Brenda? Send your questions to her and she'll do her best to offer guidance and support.
