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Avoiding Unwanted Attention in a Club: Tips for Women

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Nyakundi Report

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This archive report was first published on 13 September 2019.

Published on September 13, 2019, unwanted attention in a club can be a frustrating experience for women seeking 'Me Time'.

One effective way to avoid such attention is by seating yourself at the counter. This allows you to enjoy your own company without being bothered by others.

Another strategy is to buy yourself an expensive drink, which can serve as a deterrent to unwanted attention. If someone wants to buy you a drink, they should at least match the value of what you've purchased.

Engaging the barman is also a good idea, as they can keep an eye on your drink and ensure it remains safe.

Putting on a stern face can also help scare off men who might be interested in hitting on you. This is especially true in a club setting where you want to be left alone.

Finally, avoid being rowdy or overly friendly, as this can attract unwanted attention. If someone insists on buying you drinks, simply thank them and continue to enjoy your own company.

By following these tips, women can minimize their chances of being bothered by random guys in a club.

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