This archive report was first published on 12 September 2019.
September 12, 2019, marked a day when Andrew Kibe spoke out against the societal pressures faced by young men in relationships.
He highlighted how some women, often referred to as 'slay queens,' post pictures of their luxurious lifestyles on social media, creating unrealistic expectations for their partners.
These expectations can be overwhelming, especially for men in their early twenties who may not have the financial means to keep up with their partners' sponsors.
According to Kibe, this pressure is a major contributor to the 'depression of the boychild.'
'At 20 years old, you had boyfriends who came to you in cars yes? Where will I get such a person at 20? At 20 what do I have? I do not have access to money,' Kibe said in an interview.
He emphasized that women's empowerment has been misinterpreted over time, leading to the current situation where women are expected to have material possessions and expect their partners to match up to these standards.
Andrew Kibe's words of advice to women are to 'quit this sponsor life' and focus on building meaningful relationships rather than relying on material possessions.
