This archive report was first published on 16 August 2019.
Published on August 16, 2019, as we approach the weekend, it's time to reflect on the week's stress and look forward to a fun-filled Friday night.
Whether you're meeting a cute guy from the coffee shop or a friend's friend, first dates can be nerve-wracking. But, being aware of the red flags can save you from potential heartache.
Here are five red flags to watch out for on a first date:
- He's late and doesn't inform you
Arriving late without a word is a huge red flag. Any self-respecting person will at least call to explain their tardiness. If he does show up, and his excuse doesn't hold water, it's time to leave.
- He's rude to the wait staff
Treating wait staff poorly is a sign of disrespect. If he's rude to them, he'll likely be rude to you too. It's time to find an exit.
- He's controlling
Controlling behavior is a major red flag. Ordering for you on a first date or making comments about your weight is not acceptable. It's time to cut the date short.
- He's absent
Being physically present but mentally absent is a clear sign that he's not interested in you. If he's glued to his phone, it's time to leave.
- He brings up his ex
Constantly talking about his ex is a sign that he's not over them or is bitter about the past. It's time to be like his ex and leave.
Remember, first dates can be nerve-wracking, but being aware of these red flags can save you from potential heartache.
