This archive report was first published on 24 December 2021.
Author Jerr Rrej argues that romance can be a double-edged sword in relationships, with the potential to inspire deep feelings in a woman or lead to emotional detachment.
According to Rrej, romance is often used as a means of control, with women encouraging men to be romantic to lower them into a fearful servant mode.
This mindset is rooted in the idea that a woman's sexual arousal comes from male dominance, not male submission. When a man qualifies to a woman, he puts himself into subjection to her, whereas holding frame and putting a woman in qualification mode can heighten feelings.
Rrej suggests that romance can do more harm than good, but rare romance can have a positive effect, much like a boss who gives a rare 'Good job' to an employee.
He warns against the 'romantic guys' who encourage young men to be romantic, as they are betraying the power of their masculine brotherhood and selling their brothers into slavery to women.
Instead, Rrej advises men to bear strong frame, show little emotion, and give a woman rare affection to increase her feelings and arousal.
As the author of The Wall Speaks, an easy-to-read guide on learning masculine frame, Rrej offers a unique perspective on masculinity and relationships.
