This archive report was first published on 7 July 2019.
As I reflect on my own pregnancy experience, I'm reminded of the unpredictable nature of cravings and emotions during this time. Three years ago, I was pregnant with my daughter, and I had the worst morning sickness on record. I would wake up feeling like my body was a battleground for all sorts of ailments.
One day, I checked myself into a hospital, convinced that my life was in danger due to the pregnancy. The doctor's dismissive laughter only made me storm out of his office. My sense of smell had tripled, and I could almost smell the beach in Mombasa from my neighborhood in Komayole.
Looking back, I realize that my pregnancy was a rollercoaster of emotions. I would cry at the slightest provocation, and my hormones made me react to even the smallest things. I recall one day when I woke up craving to do a wedding, but my bank account could only take me to the shop behind my house.
It's essential to remember that no two pregnancies are the same. Some women may be more emotional and sensitive, while others may be more energetic and confident. The key is to be understanding and supportive, especially during this challenging time.
So, to all the expectant mothers out there, please know that you're not alone. Your emotions and cravings are real, and it's not just about pretending to be a certain way. And to those around them, be kind and understanding – a little empathy can go a long way.