This archive report was first published on 4 October 2021.
Published on October 4, 2021, sexologist Maurice Matheka shed light on the anatomy of sex, separating fact from fantasy.
Matheka argues that sex was not designed to satisfy either gender, but rather to serve a biological purpose. He explains that the pressure of trying to satisfy someone beats logic, as sex was meant for procreation, not recreation.
Performance anxiety for men ranges from worrying about the size of their member to the duration of sessions, with some men doubting themselves. Matheka reassures that it's never really about size, citing the example of men from Asia who have smaller members but have developed ways to satisfy their partners, such as the Kamasutra.
Matheka emphasizes that any length can satisfy a woman, as it's the stimulus that the vagina gets from the penis that gives a woman pleasure, not the size of the penis itself. He suggests that other ways of arousing a woman include toys, fingers, the tongue, and even the tip of the nose, if rubbed on the tip of a woman's urethra.
Matheka concludes that most men think loving a woman has to go hand in hand with sexual prowess, but in reality, there is no amount of love that will make a woman have an orgasm. A woman will have an orgasm because her vagina was designed to respond to stimulation or because she had a sexual stimulus.
