This archive report was first published on 27 September 2021.
Published on September 27, 2021, a time when relationships were a little more complicated.
Breaking up with someone you hooked up with can be awkward, but doing it respectfully is key to maintaining a positive relationship.
It's not about being weak, but about valuing what you shared with the other person.
So, how do you break up with a hookup without making things awkward between you two?
First, face the person and talk about it. This way, things don't remain awkward or hostile between the two of you.
Before ending things, factor in the time and place. You don't want to be in a situation where they could cause a scene or get embarrassed.
Also, don't invite them for a date to deliver the bad news. Instead, do it at their place, where they don't have to leave and face the world immediately.
When breaking up, create a positive impression. Be happy and be your usual self.
Give the person reasons why you want to end the relationship, leaning to the positive. Don't lay blame on the other person when in fact you are the one breaking up with them.
Ghosting a fling might seem appropriate, but it's immature and can leave the other person broken.
Be prompt and straight to the point. End things as soon as you see signs of expectations from a fling.
Finally, be honest and true to yourself and them from the beginning.
Remember, there are those flings that you don't want to just end completely. You might want to remain friends because you have created a connection overtime.
This is good. But, it's essential to give each other time and space to adjust to the new norm after a breakup.
