This archive report was first published on 15 September 2021.
September 15, 2021, marked a new chapter in the life of socialite Amber Ray, as she publicly declared her separation from Jimal Roho Safi, a relationship that had been marred by controversy.
According to Amber, she had confirmed her decision to end the relationship on her Instagram Live, before sharing the news with her fans on her Insta stories. While she did not reveal the exact cause of the fallout, she emphasized that she lives for the moment and believes in creating memories, adding that she fought for herself rather than fighting for the relationship.
Amber's sentiments, encapsulated in her popular slang 'Life is for the living,' have inspired her female followers to enjoy life and let go of toxic relationships. This is not the first time Amber has been in a high-profile relationship that has ended in failure. Her previous marriage to Zaheer Jihanda, a controversial businessman, ended less than three years after they exchanged vows, with Amber changing her religion to Islam in the process.
Amber's nickname 'president of 2nd wives' was a testament to her previous stance on marriage, but it seems she has learned from her past experiences. In a recent Instagram post, she divulged that she would never stay in a relationship where the man showed little or no effort, stating, '… Yes relationships have ups and downs but if I’m willing to put efforts… you should too. Otherwise tembeza kiatu tu. I will never believe in suffering in the name of marriage, kids or tumetoka mbali. Siwes.'
