This archive report was first published on 23 August 2021.
On a recent episode of Kameme TV's 'Kwibanga' show, Bishop Harrison Ng'ang'a of the Christian Foundation Fellowship (CCF) shared his thoughts on the importance of a satisfying marriage, particularly in the bedroom.
According to the Nairobi-based clergyman, many marriages are failing because husbands are not performing in bed, leaving their wives feeling unsatisfied and annoyed.
“Why do we a man and woman marry? It’s because a man has what a woman does not have and vice-versa,” he said, emphasizing the need for mutual understanding and satisfaction in a marriage.
Bishop Ng'ang'a advised men to start reading books that would help them improve their bedroom game, citing the 'Songs of Solomon' in the Bible as a valuable resource. He emphasized that reading the book is not being immoral, as Solomon was the wisest man in the Bible and men can learn from him.
“You must know that women are not like men. There is a process of stimulating her. You don’t go directly to the main service. Prepare her, start from the top going down. Speak sweet words to her, as Solomon says,” he advised.
The archbishop also stressed the importance of communication in a marriage, urging couples to talk openly about their bedroom affairs and be open to new suggestions.
“Learn from each and don’t fear to tell your partner how you feel, but do it in a way that is not demeaning, especially to man,” he said.
Published on August 23, 2021.